The results of our recent survey are in...
Five out of nine men believe an engagement should be accompanied by a ring.
33% of women loved the gesture of being given a ring, but were not entirely happy with the ring they were given.
14% of women insist that they would prefer to choose an engagement ring for themselves
These results came as no surprise to us and ‘The Promised Ring’ addresses this dilemma perfectly.
Artist's rendition of a possible Promised Ring pack with ring design suggestion
Simply put, The Promised Ring is an ingot of precious metal (white, yellow gold or platinum) combined with your choice of diamonds or gemstones, to be presented to your loved one at the time of a marriage proposal. Each box is personalised to your exact requirements. Should you choose to, you may purchase either only the diamonds/gemstones or the metal.
Having worked in the retail jewellery industry for some years, I can confirm that choosing an engagement ring causes men extreme stress and confusion.
The excitement of asking the big question can get lost in the mix when faced with so many choices. It turns from holding onto a delicious secret to one of the worst moments of performance anxiety imaginable.
Where do I begin?
Often it involves learning what seems like a foreign language — diamonds; an alphabet of colours, placement and type of inclusions, type and quality of cut — round brilliant, princess, baguette, asscher, carre — good, very good, excellent, ideal etc., fluorescent or not, spread of table, pavilion height, thickness of the girdle and so on it goes — who knew there would be so much to decide (and so much price variation) for something so tiny!
A ring is a ring is a ring ...
Then there is the ring itself — settings and styles — art deco, modern, antique, avante garde, bezel, claw, illusion, tension, pave, two tone, channel setting, gipsy setting, classic Tiffany — would she like filigree work, millgrain etching, engraving, shoulder stones, high set, low set, would she prefer a central coloured stone? A matching wedding ring? What size?
Eenie, meanie, miney, mo ...
We believe that sales should be won only when the product is exactly what the customer is looking for. That is why we have a strong emphasis on education on our website and are here to answer any questions that you might have. If you are looking for a diamond and don’t know much about them, our intent is to ensure that you know all that you need to know about the diamond you buy and that you are also reassured that you are buying exactly the right diamond for your needs and your budget.
If diamonds are not such a mystery to you, then you can be confident that the diamond you purchase is exactly what you expect it to be. It has to be. As a registered Gemmologist, I must adhere to a strict code of ethics; the qualification is hard won and taken very seriously. I also love top quality diamonds and gemstones and take great pride in what I have to offer.
Our grading system is accurate. You will receive exactly the colour and clarity that you have paid for. Our metal is pure and responsibly recycled and our diamonds are non-conflict, untreated and cut by a non-exploited workforce, including no child labour. If you are seeking a coloured gemstone then we will find the one that is perfect for you.
Above all this, you will receive excellent value for your money.
Because of the quality of our diamonds and precious metal, the person who sets the ring will not be concerned about breakages, the jeweller who makes your ring will be happy to work with the raw materials and the person who wears the ring will love it forever.
By choosing loose stones and metals this way and having them handcrafted, you will ensure that the finished piece is going to last the distance. The only way to create the ‘best’ is to start with quality, pay attention to design and have it made by a top craftsperson. The end result will be a piece of jewellery that is durable, beautiful and values higher than you paid for it.
Also keep in mind that by purchasing Ethical Jewellery Australia products, you are making an environmentally and socially responsible decision. Maybe this isn’t so important to you now; however, in the future, environmentally responsible jewellery will be the standard. And, as public awareness grows, the working conditions of those who process these raw materials (as well as how they are processed) will significantly affect the public perception of goods on offer for sale and influence their buying choices.
Before you start to browse through the diamonds and metal we have to offer, take some time to think about what it is your partner would want from an engagement ring.
First instinct often tells us that ‘the bigger the better’. Experience tells me that buying the best you can afford is usually the best option. Best however, is different for everyone. It doesn’t mean choosing a D flawless stone for thousands of dollars more than an E — G stone that is very slightly included; the reality is, to the naked eye, there is no discernible difference.
Think about what would matter the most to your partner. Perhaps your heart is set on purchasing a one carat diamond; however your budget is not. A great alternative is to buy several stones that add up to a carat.
Maybe your budget doesn’t run to this at all; consider a substantial band ring (when buying one of our ingots you have more than enough gold for this) set all the way round with small but perfect diamonds. Perhaps in a few years time you can add the ‘rock’, or maybe your partner would prefer just to add more rings of the same type. It takes a while of living with a ring to realise exactly what type of ring best suits your personal style and your lifestyle. Your partner will respect the thoughtfulness of the decisions you make.
So much importance is attached to the ring, however, the reality is, that the ring is a symbol, the important part is the commitment it represents. A big part of this commitment is showing your partner that you have an understanding of who they are. When you are choosing something this significant without their input it is important that you are able to show them that you put a lot of thought into their feelings and preferences when making your decision.
The beauty of a ‘Promised Ring’ is that you can still offer the element of surprise and ensure they end up with exactly what they want.
Melinda Nugent FGAA
Do not hesitate to call us on 07 3369 8438 or email enquiries@ethicaljewels.com.au to help you find the solution to fit your budget and her taste. Should you wish to contact me directly, my mobile is 0410 485 452 and email melinda@ethicaljewels.com.au.
All mail enquiries to P.O. Box 905 Paddington Qld 4064.